Yesterday, the bf and I had a big fight. Not very big but once again, it's thanks to his mum.
First of all, let me say, my bf's mum is nice when you are not dating any of her children. She's generous and kind hearted but very traditional. Ever watched "Xiao Niang Ren"? Yep, she's a modern nonya. Of course she's not that terrible but there are still some traits. Overall, she's a nice lady other than her occasional stares, complains about me to other people and being an over-protective mum.
Well, things have gotten for the better but not to the extent of what I would like it to be? It feels terrible not being accepted by a guy you have been dating for 4 years now. She still dislikes me. I can tell.
So, we had a fight or quarrel (whichever) it is. His mum is not a PDA person so the bf was lying on my lap. And his mum saw and she gave me the "deadly" stare and a super pissed off face. At that point, I was trying to wake him up but he didn't get up, which annoys me even more coz I already knew that his mum doesn't like it.
Anyhow, the problem is not resolved and to make matters worst, I don't feel comforted at all. Hahaha, yeah, people have been telling me how obviously different she treats me from other people and of course, hearing the things she says about me. Some are right but mostly wrong.
How now brown cow? I just told my bf that if he wants to consider marriage, he has to make her accept me first if not we elope. Hahaha... kidding. Elope also need money. By God's mercy and grace, hopefully, things will change for the better. Emotionally not very strong anymore.
