It's really not easy for two women to work together or live together unless they are related to you by blood. There's always bitchiness even on the forums when people talk to one another. Women are just critical and much more sensitive by nature. Is that something that should be forgiven? That's why we always say the men don't get it.
But I believe God is using this situation to mold me into a better person. It's not easy to forgive someone who has hurt me time and time again. Honestly, this journey with my boyfriend is really not an easy one. It's hard to get over the fact that his mum dislikes me so much and it is extremely painful. And to ask him to go against his mum is like a no no.
In all things, we believe in showing Christ likeness. God never intended for us to go against her. After all, she is still his mum. And I can't run away from that fact. 4 years and still struggling. I asked myself why. Is it really love? Yep, it must be, if not I wouldn't have bothered to put myself through so much pain.
It's also good to know that I have people who are listening to my problems and just sharing my burdens with me. They can't do anything but at least I have somewhere to unload. It's like how the saying goes, "Share with your friend your happiness or your burdens. At least when you share, your happiness will be doubled and your burdens will be halved." Thank God for people like that around my boyfriend and me. We are indeed very blessed and very appreciative of what God has given to us.
